I need to work on how to better understand others' personality type so that I can accurately balance their positive traits with their limitations, and then stop idealizing them.
It is strange how I often get disappointed when people in my life show me a side that doesn't fit my created vision of how they should be. This is very closely related to objectification. I put people in my life in certain categories as friend, mom or boyfriend, and these categories have certain characteristics. When a person's behavior deviates from the characeteristics of that person's category, it disturbs me.
I realize it is not very healthy.